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	<title>The Pillow Book &#187; General</title>
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	<description>This is the blog of Leila Raven, aka Katt, welcome to the inside of my head! Live in Love.</description>
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		<title>In The Woods&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2010/07/28/in-the-woods/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2010/07/28/in-the-woods/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 18:01:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ITW or In The Woods is an amazing BDSM kinky camping event put on yearly by the Triskeli guild in WA state. The camping site is just across the border from us and literally a hop, skip, and a jump away.
I just returned back from attending for the second year in a row, and celebrated [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Quotes and images&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2010/06/12/quotes-and-images/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2010/06/12/quotes-and-images/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jun 2010 20:45:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Do  not follow the ideas of others, but learn to listen to the voice within  yourself. Your body and mind will become clear and you will realize the  unity of all things.”  Dogen


I&#8217;ve written a few brief thoughts of my own.. I guess their not really quotes if you&#8217;re quoting yourself&#8230; [...]]]></description>
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		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2010/05/16/784/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 May 2010 22:58:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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The worst condemnent and judgment is that of one&#8217;s own self and soul.
I was just deleted off a ning spiritual social network I belong to, after I posted some information about myself in terms of my sexuality and my involvement in creating fetish/erotic/adult/pornographic material.
As time goes on, the rejection of my self by others is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Namaste</title>
		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2010/05/14/namaste/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 May 2010 02:26:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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		<title>True Friends, true loves, human relationships&#8230; Unconditional love, Conditional relationships.</title>
		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2010/05/13/true-friends-true-loves-human-relationships-unconditional-love-conditional-relationships/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2010/05/13/true-friends-true-loves-human-relationships-unconditional-love-conditional-relationships/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 May 2010 18:19:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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Whether platonic friendships, love relationships, romantic love  relationships, relationships are a huge part of our lives.
Healthy  relationships fill us with positive energy and feelings, unhealthy  relationships drain energy and cause negative feelings.
There is  no blame in relationships that are draining or create negative energy  or feelings. There is no point [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Metaphorical Knowing, Embracing our broken filters.</title>
		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2010/05/12/metaphorical-knowing-embracing-our-broken-filters/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2010/05/12/metaphorical-knowing-embracing-our-broken-filters/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 17:02:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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Everything we &#8216;think&#8217; is a metaphor. We can &#8216;think&#8217; no other way.  We experience life through our small human mind.  A little gray box of flesh and chemicals and electricity. We understand through the limited filters of our senses, through our body and mind filters.
The language I&#8217;m using right now is a metaphor, we &#8216;process&#8217; [...]]]></description>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Back</title>
		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2010/05/11/im-back-2/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2010/05/11/im-back-2/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 May 2010 16:45:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I go through cycles of blogging. Unfortunately. I can get distracted  for long periods of time. I wandered off for a while. I’ve been busy  posting mostly in Fetlife.com alternative BDSM sexuality community… So  much of what I’ve posted wasn’t really right for mass public  consumption.
Well, that’s a shabby excuse isn’t [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Love Manifest-Oh!</title>
		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/09/14/love-manifest-oh/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/09/14/love-manifest-oh/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 21:28:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s amazing what life can put in your path, and really as much as things can and do go wrong. How so much manages to go right.
I have a lot of things in my life right now going wrong that I could focus on&#8230; but I&#8217;m choosing instead to focus on what&#8217;s going right. As [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Shit I feel good.</title>
		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/09/13/shit-i-feel-good/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/09/13/shit-i-feel-good/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2009 17:22:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love NRE (new relationship energy) I&#8217;m vibrating with a fine mix of brain chemistry that&#8217;s intoxicating.
With a perpetually wet pussy and insatiable desire to torment my new boy that is kept in check by my fibro my body, and not wanting to break a new toy.
I&#8217;ve been having an amazing weekend, the stomach flu [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Today I think on my accomplishments&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/08/23/today-i-think-on-my-accomplishments/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/08/23/today-i-think-on-my-accomplishments/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2009 21:41:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[and I&#8217;m proud.
I came from a very poor family, with some troubles, and some genetic issues that have affected my health in various ways throughout my life. With my share of childhood pains, we all endure, like the death of my oldest sister. Some childhood abuse from a teacher. Some health issues as a child. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Scammed? Betrayed? At risk?</title>
		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/08/22/scammed-betrayed-at-risk/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/08/22/scammed-betrayed-at-risk/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2009 19:13:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve had friends over the years fall prey to this. Friends or lovers, scamming them for money. Sometimes from within the community, that charming Dom in need you&#8217;ve gotten close to online, that new friend you made at a munch with a business idea.
People get so taken in, when it&#8217;s someone they care about, that [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Well the chicken&#8217;s are long gone&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/08/21/well-the-chickens-are-long-gone/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/08/21/well-the-chickens-are-long-gone/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2009 02:11:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Amongst other news. An anonymous caller called in and reported us to the city bylaw officers. We&#8217;re not allowed to keep any fowl in Chilliwack. This happened earlier in the summer, the girls had become quite tame, and we&#8217;d just added a third hen, that lays blue eggs.Â  They were adopted out to a family [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Recent pics of me, for the yahtzeers</title>
		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/08/20/recent-pics-of-me-for-the-yahtzeers/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/08/20/recent-pics-of-me-for-the-yahtzeers/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 19:46:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.thepillowbook.com/?p=739</guid>
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		<title>Saturday morning in a small country garden.</title>
		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/06/06/saturday-morning-in-a-small-country-garden/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/06/06/saturday-morning-in-a-small-country-garden/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jun 2009 01:24:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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		<title>Australorps</title>
		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/06/05/australorps/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/06/05/australorps/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Jun 2009 04:49:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sounds a little like the name of a dinosaur. I guess that&#8217;s not too far off. It&#8217;s a type of chicken. It&#8217;s the type of chicken I brought home today as an early birthday present. Two 4 week old australorps. Good layers, of light brown eggs, friendly and passive, black with an irridescent green and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Life is Good</title>
		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/05/30/life-is-good/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/05/30/life-is-good/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2009 04:55:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I only have two puppies left at home, two left us this evening. Though I spent a big chunk of the day with the four of them, can&#8217;t believe we&#8217;re down to two. Then tomorrow one more leaves us, and then we&#8217;ll only have one remaining. He&#8217;ll be with us a week before his people [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Wonderful day</title>
		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/05/22/wonderful-day/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/05/22/wonderful-day/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2009 21:19:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m so happy. My girl is home. She&#8217;s sick and she&#8217;s tired, and I want to take care of her. I adore her.
When I got home this afternoon from a morning of swimming and shopping with my best friend I brought my girl treats I had bought for her. Colouring books, a giant bubble wand [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Compassion society&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/05/19/compassion-society/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/05/19/compassion-society/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 00:02:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was lucky that given the severity of my fibromyalgia, and having been diagnosed by one of the leading rheumatologists in BC, and having had the benefit of a very good family Dr. and specialists, that getting an official form from my family Dr. for the compassion society was a simple form fee away.
It&#8217;s strange [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Pain, people and puppies.</title>
		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/05/19/pain-people-and-puppies/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/05/19/pain-people-and-puppies/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 19:37:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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Just had my second session of massage therapy. It wasn&#8217;t as pleasant to recieve today. I was more sore and tender, and a lot of it was uncomfortable for me. I could still feel it working and so far afterwards I&#8217;m feeling some loosening and relief, so I think it was still as therapeutic as [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Pain Day</title>
		<link>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/05/18/pain-day/</link>
		<comments>http://www.thepillowbook.com/2009/05/18/pain-day/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 May 2009 21:35:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leila Raven</dc:creator>
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It&#8217;s not too hellacious, but it&#8217;s bad enough, that I&#8217;m pretty much stuck laying in my recliner all damn day.Â  Which is making me a bit whiney and pissy.
There&#8217;s so many fun things I could be doing, or practical things, I&#8217;d even settle for necessary things right now, like getting up and getting something to [...]]]></description>
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