Aug 4 2002 - Pride weekend
Well, I had a most amazing weekend. After having a couple of very rough weeks, I made a small bit of peace with my grief, and was able to let some of the weight off my shoulders, hopefully it's not just temporary.
My friend that passed away last January had bought me a bottle of wine the month before. I've been saving it for when I'm ready to drink a toast to him. I've decided when I go to Hornby Island this September, my yearly getaway, that I will share that bottle with Wolfe and my parents, and in my favorite place, drink a toast to a man who in such a small time, had such a big impact on me. I'm ready to be in that place in my grieving.
This weekend we had a friend from Seattle visit whom I've been feeling closer and closer to every time we spend some time together, as he is a very lovable kind of guy. He was an invited guest to another friends birthday party, which had a 'naughty nurse'/'medical' theme. We had loads of fun. I had a few entirely new experiences. Acupressure cupping done, which suctions the skin raising it into vacuumed cups bringing blood to the surface of the skin which creates pain, heat, bruising, and some amazing endorphins. Then after that, another first, I had some piercing work done on my back while he taught Wolfe some of his many trade secrets at being a very accomplished blood play top. I couldn't take that many needles, but found that what I was able to experience was very enjoyable for me. I have to be in the right state of mind to allow that type of play, and I'll do it again I'm sure, if the right mood, and the right tops, present themselves.
This pic is a little example, of the tamer variety. We took pictures of acupressure cupping on me, and on the naughty nurse.. of blood drawing, of play piercing... It was a lot of fun. All those pictures will be going up on the www.dominaction.com site which will eventually, hopefully sooner rather than later, will be switched to being one of the 'Erotimania' sites, so that members of other Erotimania sites will get full access to the DominAction content. In the meantime, if you want to check it out, you'll have to become an independent member of DominAction. We're working on getting all the sites under one big Erotimania umbrella, so for one low membership fee, you get the whole buffet. <grin>.
We also took lots of great photos of my experiences that night, as well as some playing around with the birthday girl who was in the hottest naughty nurse outfit. Wolfe had some blood drawn as well. Though I'll let him present those details if he wishes.
I also got to do some topping once I had gotten down from my endorphin buzz a few hours later. I had brought my 'house boy' a submissive I currently have who comes to my house a number of times a week to keep it clean and help out in a general way. I had him available to serve at the party, and I've given him to that household on Mondays, to serve there as well for domestic duties. He had broken a glass, and made some other little errors, which were perfect excuses to have him 'punished' though I must say for someone who was supposed to be receiving a punishment he seemed to be writhing a bit too pleasurably. Unfortunately, he cannot allow himself to be photographed at this time, so we'll have to keep our play and work time together off of film archive.
I've been very pleased with him, and lucky to have him. He is in his fifties but looks much much younger, but has served Mistresses in long term positions since the age of fourteen, he came already very well trained, and has needed only some fine tuning to my own specifications.
He's a small piece of my grand plans current in my life right now, which is trying to establish a household where I can live a BDSM lifestyle, with live in submissives/slaves, and provide a unique environment for people wanting to live or just visit and play outside of the mainstream world. I'm in the processing of building contacts, and planning, and figuring out what steps I need to take to make that a reality.
So overall the weekend was filled with fun, just having our out of town guest around was great in itself, sharing meals and conversation. Then going to play at one of the most amazing parties I've ever attended. To get to take photos and play around there. Then have a very mellow day today, just to bask in the afterglow.
Tomorrow, I'm shaving my head, taking pictures, having a girlfriend help me out, hopefully some of it will be outdoors, weather permitting, and then later that day, we'll do some wig play and photo shoots as well. So it might be a good day (Monday/today likely when you are reading this) to peek in on the web cam, you might catch some action. I'm thinking about making a metal Mohawk on my bald scalp by piercing my scalp with acupuncture needles, I have a hundred of them waiting for me, and I'm going to attempt it. So hopefully we'll be shooting that as well.
XO
Kattclix here to vote for my journal please
Come on.... just a little something, money for tea?
for Christmas dinner? for toilet paper? for shaving cream?for a puppy?for oranges? for tampons? for paper? for Mr. Noodle? hooked on phonics lessons? for anti-depressants? For puppy food?For puppy kindergarten? For bankruptcy fees?for neutering costs?