March 13

Lovely day today, though I woke up in a horrid mood.  Had plans to go out with my baby for sushi and to wig shop with her, but felt I had to cancel because I felt so down.  Fortunately though, as the day went on, I started to pick up, and by the time it was time to get together, I was craving sushi, wig shopping, and raring to go.

Wig shopping is always challenging, especially when you are shopping for someone else, and all you want to do is buy the whole store!  I tried on a number of wigs that I have on my 'to buy' list.  I tried on a little white chin length bob that I really liked, fun.

Sushi was all you can eat, and oh did we!  Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm (thank you honey!)  My tummy is still happy.

She also gifted me with a couple of surprises, one of which was a lovely floral print chiffon apron to add to my growing collection of aprons.  One of these days I'll have as many maids as I have aprons!  I will not give up on my BDSM estate plans, at the very least, they will be retirement plans.  Well, likely sooner, the current plan is that in seven years our bankruptcy file will be removed from our credit record, our condo will be paid off, and we should be able to invest in out of town acreage on which to build.  So we would start seven years from now, based on that plan.  The alternate plan, is before that time I get funding from subby investor(s) that wants to live part or full time in a submissive role in a BDSM household.  Securing slave labour to actually build, shouldn't prove difficult.  It's essentially just materials cost.  I've had offers of skilled labor already.

Speaking of the BDSM lifestyle, I've had yet another person make inquiries in terms of mentoring, specifically with a focus on CBT, there seems to be a lot of female Dommes out there who want more and good information on safe, sane CBT play.  At this rate, I'll have to recruit some more training bottoms, as my main CBT masochist is an out of town boy.  Though he comes down regularly enough.  Come to think of it, out of all the workshops I've seen offered, one I haven't really seen is one on CBT, maybe I'll talk to our local event organizers about the seeming demand in the community, I'd be game to do a little workshop on that... For those of you not in the kink scene, CBT stands for cock and ball torture, and yes, there are many people, on the giving and receiving end, who -really- enjoy this activity, so don't go feeling sorry for anyone, trust me... they like it, they *really* like it.  It's something men either like, or they don't, and they are almost always pretty damn sure which camp they fall into.  You only play with the boys, of boys who like their boys played with. 

Well, it's late, and I'm pooped, I'm going to upload this sucker tomorrow, better late than never!