July 16 - Pickled Poly Party Pleasures, Predicaments and Punishment.
Ohhh....
Well last night we went to a party... a poly party (most people there living multi-partnered respectful non-monogamous relationships... )
I should be working today but I called in sick... evil.
Last night early evening:
Sitting chatting on ICQ with a lovely freaky girlfriend... a boy girl by the name of butterfly, who was going to be our transportational benefactress that evening and be driving us to the party. I was watching her on her cam and she was showing me all the clothes she bought that day, and I think we talked about shaving... and well I asked her how she felt about having her cam window open on our site and she was all for it! So I will be adding that in at some point in the near future. We also have some plans for her to come over Thursday night, and she will do her weekly head to toe body shave on the cam here... purrrr.
(Butterfly is beautiful person and is undergoing transformation... If you have personal preferences sexually that do not include a generous spectrum of gender identity, Butterfly's area on the site may not be to your interest and taste. If you find gender that is: fluid, perhaps viewed as androgynous, mysterious, not socially easily definable, alternative, challenging, and personal, something attractive, erotic, or of an interest to your sense of wanting to understand others from a place of growth and respect.. then you may very well find the little window into butterfly's world a wonderful place to visit.)
here's what I saw when I peeked in on her cam window just now...
8ish:
butterfly and I watching one another on the cam as we pretty up for the party
together.
9ish:
butterfly arrives in her sleek chariot and speeds us away to poly party land...
10ish:
ex-girlfriend at party gives short update chat... firmly into the first hard
lemonade.
I play a medieval drinking game by the name of Toblero de Gucci (spelling?)
after consuming many more shots of alcohol in the course of the game.. I win!..
I think...
Part of the prize for winning is the start of another medieval game.. a kissing
game... that involves a cloven fruit, I am awarded the fruit to start off the
game as my prize. (Though of course being given the fruit by the
person who lost the game, I was obliged to kiss him, so I think he was a rather roguish
fellow!) If your not familiar with this practice... (not remembering your
past lives? never joined a medieval society, no friends in the SCA?)
okay.. so.. one takes a fruit that has had cloves (spice that comes in a small
stick like form and sweetens the breath) punctured in its skin all over to
decorate it, one takes the fruit, plucks a clove from it to sweeten the breath,
and then present the fruit to the.. object of ones desire.. <cough>.. and
then that person partakes of a clove to sweeten their breath, and kisses the
person who passed them the fruit, either a kiss on the hand, or a kiss on the
cheek.. or a kiss on the mouth. That person is then free to pass the fruit
to another, though not the person who just gave it to them.
11ish till about 4:30am:
Things are getting pleasantly blurred around the edges, I found the cloven fruit
returning to my hand by a new individual many times over the course of the
evening, and always kisses exchanged on the mouth...
There is a house rule at these parties, of no sex, so this was not a 'sex'
party, though there was a great deal of flirting, and smooching... and well,
groping.
Also I ended up getting very firmly spanked by Wolfe, butterfly and another
lovely in the kitchen, and I'm still sporting the welts!
4:30 - 5:30ish...
Home, disoriented, sick... couldn't sleep, Wolfe did, I came up and joined the
yahoo club for 'drunk girls'... looking for love in all the wrong places!...
amazed I didn't dash my skull going up and down the new steel ladder inebriated
in the dark.
5:30ish:
finally collapsed into bed and slept.. alarm set for 8am so I could call in sick
for work... (which I did) <groan>
Today:
I awoke again around noon.. tried to get up and write a journal entry..
did not work for me.. back to bed.. Wolfe brought me food in the afternoon...
and now I'm up again, and this time typing away... Someone responded to our add
we placed for Cinder, and are coming to look at her tonight... I'm
heartbroken. How can I give up my puppy! :(
I know it's the best thing though.
It's just that picture 2 looks so empty...
XO
Katt