Archive for September, 2008

We move in the direction of our expectations

Monday, September 15th, 2008

We move in the direction of our expectations is one of the tenets of Adlerian Psychology.
Our world views shape our experiences. Our beliefs about the world play a large part in forming our experiences. When we have strong beliefs our mind does it’s best to maintain those beliefs. Whether your belief is ‘women are bitches’ [...]

Feeling better

Friday, September 12th, 2008

I’ve been feeling a fair bit better the last couple of weeks, there’s been a definite change, less pain over-all by far.
I had a follow up with my family Dr. last week and the results from my bloodwork though not entirely normal, didn’t point to anything more than my fibromyalgia. I had some things come [...]

Verbal abuse, clinical definitions of various aspects of verbally abusive behaviors

Saturday, September 6th, 2008

When I did my first work as a psychotherapist it was in a practicum setting where I was working as a counselor for a ‘women and violence’ program. Essentially dealing with current and/or past survivors of abuse. One of my focused areas of study was on dealing with and healing from abusive relationships.
Abusive behavior occurs [...]

Personality, world views and experience… understanding the negatives, creating the positives. Living in Love.

Friday, September 5th, 2008

I have a background in psychology and have always had an interest in human nature, in personality, and growth and healing. In happiness, and in love. Why? I think being happy, and living ‘in love’ is the most important thing there is. It’s the most important thing in my life, to be happy and want [...]

A weird list

Thursday, September 4th, 2008

I don’t feel like my brain is up to complex tricks like sentence structure, paragraphs, cohesive writing. But I have a lot of things on my mind.
Wolfe’s grandmother passed away last week, the service was today, religious, solemn, smiles, family, tears, wisdom, and nothing like the cycle of life and death to put things in [...]

Listening

Monday, September 1st, 2008

I’ve been reading a lot on the forums in Fetlife lately, and it’s been interesting reading. Lots of excellent threads, thoughts, ideas. Things that take me back to philosophy and psychology classes many years ago some of them. Or many late night conversations with friends over the years.
In the past all the ideas swirling around [...]