Oh how I commiserate with you. I find myself in just about the same situation. …..minus the man.

Here comes Christmas and my little condo is a disaster. Has been a disaster for a sum of years now. I, too, always had the perfect little abode…my piece of heaven.

What I’ve finally realized is that “working from home” changed my personal relationship with the space I occupy. Changed it big time. Work (and before that school) had always been two separate entities in my life until my move to small time phone sex goddess.

But realizing that hasn’t changed a thing. Except that I now occasionally hire a maid to come in and–at least a little bit–set things a bit straighter, neater, cleaner.

Always and forever wishing you the best, Angela